Found this in a stall in the girls restroom at my school. Hell yes
When I finished reading I said to myself, “No fucking way!” Clever… very clever. You win this time.
This is by far the greatest post in existence. You can all go home. I am in pure awe at the brilliance of this. The world is beautiful and there is hope for humanity.
the video is funnier than the gif set
this video speaks to me on a spiritual level
i LOVE THIS GIRL
Realized that video posts are more convenient than links. I’d appreciate it if you guys watched it and tell me what you think. I think this shit needs to be said.
this is a pretty delicate topic and he has a lot of controversial points in there so watch at own risk and don’t be butt hurt if you watch and disagree, he’s open to discuss it.
i have the best friends in the world!
holy shit your victim complex is incredible
*i have the most coddling, chickenshit liberal friends in the world!
hahaha because HOW DARE someone feel like shit for being told to die because of their gender identity right that is HILARIOUS what a terrific joke
Cis people have absolutely no right to complain about being bullied based on gender identity.
Alright. I just spent about a half hour writing a reply to this from my phone, and Tumblr’s shitty ass mobile app ate the post when I tried to send it, so I’m just going to try again from my computer, from scratch, because I am that angry about this idea.
Let me explain to you a goddamn thing.
I’m going to start and explain my exact level of privilege if it concerns you so much. I am a 22-year-old white, cis, pansexual woman raised Mormon, now ex-Mormon because its culture is full of shitty homophobia, misogyny, internalized racism, rape culture-enforcing, victim blaming, and all other kinds of toxic bullshit that would give me full-blown, hyperventilating, nauseating panic attacks every Sunday.
With that out of the way, I’m going to say this: Is cisbullying as severe or widespread as trans*phobia? Does it has as much of a history as cisphobia? No. No, it absolutely does not. Trans*phobia is a severe problem and cisphobia is a slap on the wrist compared to trans*phobia, which has a history of bloodshed and cruelty and discrimination. I am aware of this. I’m not an idiot.
But cisphobia is still an actual, real thing, and it’s a hypocritical, counterproductive movement that I frankly think is complete and utter bullshit. No one on God’s green earth has the fucking right to tell another human being to die based on their gender identity. I seriously cannot understand how anybody can possibly think this is okay, especially trans*, gender fluid, gender neutral, and other nonbinary individuals, who understand oppression the greatest and know how shitty it feels to be reduced to your identity and ridiculed for it.
"Well, we’re oppressed, so it’s okay." No. No it is fucking not okay, you spoiled infants. You do not get a get out of jail free card just for being nonbinary. You are being a shitty person, attacking someone for the gender identity they have no control of, and then wonder why everyone’s so upset with you. “Waaah, all I did was tell another human being they shouldn’t be alive and that their opinions don’t matter!! Why are you getting so upset with me?” Do you not see how immature and problematic this attitude is?
Yes, being cis is the majority. I understand that. But it is absolutely hypocritical and downright idiotic to think that it’s even remotely okay to attack every cis person based on this judgment, and then turn around and claim that you want equality for everyone, bullying is wrong, no one should be oppressed, because you’re clearly so full of shit that you are the envy of septic tanks everywhere. Nonbinary people as a group are not precious perfect angels, just as cis people are not precious perfect angels. There are shitty, toxic people in every group, without exception. There are good people and bad people in every group, and your gender identity does not define that.
By coincidence, all of my very closest friends identify as trans*, gender neutral, gender fluid, and even intersex, respectively. I am the only cis person in my inner circle. I really honestly do not give half a shit about this fact, being the only cis person. Okay, whatever, it’s what I was born as. But don’t you fucking dare tell me that I’m automatically the shittiest person in the group for the sole fact that I am cis.
I love my friends more than I can explain and I will fight tooth and nail for their rights and their freedom, because I want them to use whatever fucking bathroom they want, I want them to have access to medical care to transition if they want, I want them to be able to live peacefully and happily and be comfortable with themselves and not deal with assholes who would try to hurt them just for who and what they are.
I use my cis privilege to educate other cis people about the struggles minorities go through. I am listened to, understood, and I’ve even broadened the horizons of many of my friends and family, just by coming out as bisexual (pansexual was a very recent self-acceptance, and I am educating about that too). Am I a special snowflake for this? Again, no. I absolutely am not a special snowflake. I’m being a goddamn decent human being and I don’t expect a fucking pat on the back for what I do and say in support of the trans* community.
But I absolutely will not tolerate other people making my cis friends feel like shit for who they are under the extremely flawed and immature reasoning of “well they’re cis, so they have no right”.
Bull. Fucking. Shit.
I’m pansexual. I have been aware of my same-sex attraction my entire life, and then more as I grew up and became educated and learned to recognize the full spectrum of my sexual attractions, and I’ve been very acutely aware that people believe that I’m automatically a whore, a cheater, ‘confused’, ‘just a lesbian who won’t admit it and still has a foot in the closet’.
Don’t forget I was raised Mormon and had to endure 19 years of hearing people preach how people like me were going to hell, were ‘wrong’ or ‘broken’ somehow, influenced by the Devil, and having to smile and nod along with them out of terror of rejection and being kicked out of my home and ostracized by my entire Mormon family on both sides, or being forced to a conversion camp to be ‘fixed’ so I could be ‘normal’ and go to Heaven with everyone else. I think I have a fucking taste of what trans people go through, thank you very much. Not a full, exact, identical understanding, but a taste. That much fear and oppression for a taste.
The only cis people who have no right to complain about being bullied are the ones who actively are transphobic and bully nonbinary individuals, and even then, it should have nothing to do with their cissexuality, but with how they are behaving.
Don’t you fucking dare tell me I’m not allowed to complain when I’m being wronged. Just don’t you fucking even.
I’m fucking done. And if you’re going to go ahead and unfollow me, by all means go ahead because I want nothing to do with your toxic, backwards bullshit.
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FROM ME TO YOU:
Please stop all this hate.
We aren’t like your oppressors.
We want to help.
Don’t push us away.
There are so many more friendships to be made.
"we aren’t like the bad guys" "let us" "don’t push us away"
this sounds threatening and shitty and this whole post is shit and you are shit and there is shit everywhere
What the fuck is this bullshit.
"Tumblr made me pretend I was gender fluid to fit in" like what the fuck kind of asshat shit message is that.
OP can GDIAF.
in case anyone at all is wondering why we are always so pissed about “allies”
she doesn’t even address why she shouldn’t be grouped with our oppressors? and like she doesn’t address any of her main points, just says some shit defending herself, and then says ‘we love you all / please don’t hate us’ yeah right man now we’re totally in love with someone who previously fetishised and tried to label herself as genderfluid to “fit in.”
so instead of researching on how to not be an awful ally, or why people ‘group the oppressors” OR even why fetishising and pretending to be genderfluid is horrifically destructive, OP decided to waste their time on this dumbass comic. I literally hate you
bolded the last part cause op you fucked up
Bolded everything because YOU guys fucked up.
"weh cis white straight people can’t understand us" "lol you labeled yourself as genderfluid to fit in ur such trash"
did you ever stop and think that, MAYBE the ones that are trash are you people, who act nice and supportive but then do shit like this? I don’t even care if i lose followers over this, but all of the bolded stuff is BS and you should be ashamed of yourselves.
you people, some of you anyway, are idiots. instead of maybe being happy that someone is trying, you’re sitting here being morons and assholes to someone that had good intentions. was it right of OP to pretend to be genderfluid to fit in? not really, but you know what? considering how 99.9% of tumblr is, I can totally understand it.
a lot of you people pretend to be all “omg we’re totally for everyone” and “we’re all such good people” but despite that, a lot of you are hypocrites.
you claim to be nice and supportive of everyone, but the truth of the matter is, you’re NOT.
unless someone is gay, bi, trans, genderfluid, or anything that is not straight/cis/white, most of tumblr doesn’t give a shit and thinks the person is stupid and uninformed and you know what? they are uninformed because the only information they get is delivered to them in this way and they’re constantly told that, no matter what, they’re the bad guy just because of how they are.
ever stop and think that this is exactly how the right-wingers view US? we are demonized by rightwingers because they don’t like our way of life, and they are constantly saying we’re the bad guys. let in soak in that all of you are no different than the people that try and oppress us.
I hope that makes you all feel real good about yourselves.
Bashing someone for their views and hopes regarding the hate on tumblr is moronic, and all of you should be trying to be helpful towards people that don’t fully understand the things they’re talking about.
And if the tumblr mentality wasn’t so strong with the rebloggers of this post, maybe OP wouldn’t have felt like they needed to pretend to be something they aren’t just so they could have friends on tumblr.
i was so distressed and upset at all the commentary until i got to the last comment thank you friend we need more ppl like you in the world
I just saw this on facebook. It’s the video to that gif of a guy pushing a girl away and she starts to slap him and all of that shit.
These are literally SOME of the comments that I read and jeez dude. Like how the fuck is this funny? How are you calling a guy who doesn’t want a girl touching his dick, gay or even a pussy? Like damn dude.
This has literally given me a new ass perspective on rape. Jesus christ. How can anyone even laugh at this shit? Rape is never okay, it does not matter what gender, it is never okay and shouldn’t be treated so lighthearted.
Even if this was fake or staged, treating and saying this shit is just fucked up. I literally lose hope in this species everyday.
Look at this fucking rape apologism and homophobia right fucking here.
Shameful comments from those facebook users.
THIS IS MY FAVORITE